1. I'm considering going to get an erotic massage. Good/Bad idea?

    I'm under 25 (but over 18) and I haven't had a real relationship. I'm not bad looking, I just can't seem to get the dating started. Anyway, due to this I've become sexually frustrated, and have found some erotic massage listings online. I'm willing to pay, and I really think I want this. Is it okay to do? Will I be safe? Can these online listings be a trap of some sort? I'd love any advice.